Monica Vervoort & Ryan Weber

Engaged

July 28, 2006

Wedding

September 29, 2007

Our Theme & Colours

dark purple

Guest Invited

225

Budget

$7,000

(fingers crossed)

basics

How we met... High School/Youth Group.

We wanted to share our story because... To share with people that just because you're young doesn't mean you can't do it... and to show that you don't need a butt load of money for a wedding.

How he proposed... We had just purchased our first home and were scheduled to take possession of it on the 27th of July. I wasn't going to be living there because of our beliefs, so I sorta knew that in the next few months or so I may be getting a ring. I wasn't expecting it for right away since we bought a fixer upper and nobody would live there right away. Anyways, on the Wednesday, July 25 we were at Home Depot picking up our fridge and I started digging around the middle console in his truck, looking for a pen while he was loading the fridge, when all of a sudden he starts banging on the back window of the truck telling me "STAY OUT OF THERE!" I was like, why I need a pen, but he said just stay out (I guess lucky for him I was just feeling around in there instead of looking around). Anyways on the way home I obviously bugged and bugged about what it was and he said there was a house warming gift in there and I could have it in a couple days. Well then I started to think it was a ring, but the next night, the night we got possession of the house, we had a ball game and his mom was out watching, and since I had bugged everybody else that would know if it was a ring and they hadn't told me, I decided to bug his mom. I asked if she new what was in there and she said no. I was making a scene - joking around - when she says "Hey Monica, maybe it's an engagement ring!" So right then and there I knew it couldn't be a ring because she would never have even mentioned it. The next night, Friday, July 28, 2006, I came home from work, quickly got changed and was waiting at my parents house for him to come get me so that we could pick up a couch a street over. I also had some boxes of house stuff and when he got there he insisted that we needed to go to the house first instead of swinging by the neighbours to get the couch. On the way there I was bugging him asking when I get my housewarming gift and he said that really it wasn't anything special but he would give it to me latter if I was "good". We got to the house and I grabbed a box to carry in the house. When I walked into the living room there was a vase of roses and an envelope with my name on it, I looked at him and was like, "is this for me?" He was just like "oh yeah" and kept going on with moving boxes in and out. So I started to read the letter, which was also the first letter in 4 and a half years that I have ever gotten from him, which talked about all the things we have been through, sickness and deaths and happy times too, it talked about our daily routines and the things we do together and what he loves about those things and the little things that I do, it talked about how buying this house was a big step for us and he knew that it would be stressful at first but he knows that everything would be ok because we have each other and then it said that he looked forward to spending the rest of our lives together. Well I am not one to cry but it was just so sweet the way he said everything so I was balling, but since he wasn't staying in the room while I read this I didn't think it was a proposal but then I turned and he was there and just smiled at me. I gave him a big hug and said thanks and it meant a lot to read all that and while I was hugging him he just starts SHAKING!!! He pulls away and starts to go down on one knee, I did the "oh my god" thing and then let him say "will you marry me?" He pulled open the box I said yes and just grabbed him and hugged him... I didn't even give him a second to put the ring on... I actually forgot to... but then he asked if I wanted the ring on and it was beautiful. Turns out that was what was in the middle console in the truck! He didn't tell his mom until after baseball about proposing and waited to ask my dad until the Friday when I wouldn't see him anymore because I know when my dad is hiding something from me. The two people that knew the whole time was my best friend, Heather, and my brother, Jeremy.

How we feel about our upcoming married life... I am over the top excited. Although we have never lived together, we spend so much time together during waking hours that we suspect only a minor adjustment - which to be truthful will be a perk.

Our dream wedding could be described as... Ryan and me. As long as Ryan is there it is literally my dream wedding, I am not to picky on the other stuff because it really doesn't matter in the long run.

Our colour/theme: Teal (I think). We aren't positive yet. It all depends on dresses and what colors are available.

planning

So far (by January 31, 2007) we've planned... Church location, Pastor, photographer, reception hall, dj, caterer, and just this weekend the wedding dress.

Our biggest concern right now is... The bridesmaid dresses. My one matron of honor lives in California - luckily if she is also in her sister's wedding and the Taylor's (who we are using have her measurements). Our families are VERY different and I hope for them to mesh ok. Also my parents are divorced and up until this past year never got along - hopefully they can continue this new found respect.

Chapter one diary entry... I have got to get on top of choosing bridesmaid dresses. My main concern is that I want ones they can wear again - but I am starting to realize that it may not happen because those types of dresses really won't suit everyone in the bridal party as they are all very different shapes and sizes to each other. We shall see. Oh yeah, gotta call the caterer for a taste testing - can't wait - FREE DINNER!!!!

bridal diary: march 19, 2007

How we're feeling... We are still totally ready to just be married!!!!! I keep saying when we are told a cost - le'ts not spend to much no matter how much you spend we'll still be married at the end of the day and that is really all we want!!!!

The groom surprised me by... He's been my rock these past couple of days. He always is but especially now when I really do need it.

What's going on with my bridal party... One of my bridesmaids had her baby (who is also my future sister-in-law). She had a little girl named Cara Faith and this little one is going to be our flower girl!!!!

What happened this week that was frustrating... Well my grandpa whom we were really close to died on St. Patrick's Day. That makes it 3 grandparents that have died in less than a year and we still have 6 months to go.

What happened this week that was awesome!... I'm still looking for a bright side right now.

Planning pet peeves lately... EVERYBODY wants MONEY!!!!

Our budgeting issues this week/day/month... Once again everybody wants money even people that won't be doing anything at all!!!!!

And the hunt continues... We also contacted our photographer and she's been great. I really don't like flowers to much in the first place and am completely lost on them. I've had her books (she brought me over magazines and some of her photos of stuff she had already done) for a while now so she called the other day to see if I wanted her to come over sometime and help me a bit more now that I sort of know what I like and dislike. She's totally awesome and watching our budget for us on this point - the less we spend is fine with her!!! I am so glad we have her.

Advice for out brides out there... So our color changed from teal to dark purple - it's like a plum color and I love it. I had really wanted black for bridesmaids dresses, etc. but my fiancé really didn't want that - so now I am sorta getting what I want because this purple is really dark! We changed the color because the teal really wasn't working for us anymore and hadn't really been something I envisioned since I was little - plus we want some pics in a corn field and the bridesmaids would just blend in. I'm pretty sure the groomsmen are a little happier with this change in color because now they'll be wearing this or silver so that's good.

Stay tuned for more of Monica & Ryan's wedding story & photos

Kelly Schade & Tim Bebenek

Engaged

June 15, 2006

Wedding

May 20, 2007

Our Theme & Colours

Hawaiian beach theme

Guest Invited

125

Guests Expected

105

Budget

$7,000

basics

How we met... We met 12 years ago but had lost touch and lived different lives.

We wanted to share our story because... When I moved to Kitchener from Hawaii I had to do a lot of searching and testing to figure out what is good and bad here. I didn't want all of this knowledge to go to waste.

How he proposed... I was living in Hawaii and I was expecting Tim to come in on Friday. My parents had called inviting me out to dinner Thursday night. When I got there Tim was there. We decided to blow off the restaurant and get a bottle of wine and head to the beach. When we were there it started to sprinkle so I wanted to go. He said I had to wait because he had one more surprise. He got down on his knee and proposed.

How we feel about our upcoming married life... I can't wait!

Our dream wedding could be described as... It was much easier to have our wedding here in Kitchener so I am bringing Hawaii to the K-W area.

Our colour/theme: We are having a Hawaiian beach theme.

planning

So far (by February 1, 2007) we've planned... I have just about everything planned.

Our biggest concern right now is... My biggest concern is being able to pull this all together within budget.

Chapter one diary entry... So I have all of my vendors chosen, I have finished my invites, and have purchased my items for my favors. Now I have to start assembling the favors. I've had 2 fittings and have 2 fittings left.

Stay tuned for more of Kelley & Tim's wedding story & photos

Amanda Williams & Scott Jennings

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Engaged

May 7, 2006

Wedding

September 29, 2007

Our Theme & Colours

Cinderella Theme

Guest Invited

125-150

Budget

$20,000

basics

How we met... We met online.

We wanted to share our story because... I want to share my reality wedding story with other brides as they have shared their stories with me!

How he proposed... Well Scott isn't an extravagant romantic but he does try! While we were vacationing in May he popped the question. We were at Walt Disney World and it was the end of our first day there. We were at the Magic Kingdom and just finished watching the fireworks show! Right after the show he proceeded to get down on one knee and ask me to marry him! I was so stunned that I told him to shut up. He laughed and said well will you. And I of course said YES!

How we feel about our upcoming married life... I am extremely excited as I know that I have found my soul mate in Scott.

Our dream wedding could be described as... Enchantment!

Our colour/theme: We're having a Cinderella theme! It just seemed right since he proposed in front of Cinderella's Castle!

planning

So far (by February 20, 2007) we've planned... Everything! Can you believe it? We will be having an outdoor ceremony and we're praying for nice weather!!! It's so nice to know that everything is booked and deposits are paid. Now we can relax for a short while anyway. September will be here before we know it!

Our biggest concern right now is... Everything running smoothly.

Chapter one diary entry... Well know that everything is booked, I have had the chance to sit and just relax. We are looking at wedding rings at the moment and hope to purchase them after tax season! We're finalizing the guest list as well which seems like such a tedious task! The invitations are ordered and my mother who lives 8 hours away wants me to send her one already! I told her she just had to wait! In a few weeks, we will be making a little trip to the States with two of our bridesmaids to order dresses. We decided to get the dresses in the States since half the bridesmaids are in Canada and half are in the States. My FH and I are also wrestling with the decision as to whether or not we want to include our dog in the ceremony. We will be having an outdoor ceremony and we would love to have our dog there. She is like our child! So we will see what we decide to do! But other than that everything has been smooth sailing and we can't wait until September!

bridal diary: april 10, 2007

How we're feeling... Well we are glad to be done with all of our planning. We are now just anxiously awaiting for the day to get here! Arguments tend to pop up every once and a while, mostly concerning the budget and money, but we always seem to smooth things out.

The groom surprised me by... He's great. It's the little things that he does that makes my days worth while! I'm sick right now and he's been checking in on me while he's at work. Also he's been making sure that I'm tucked in nice and warm in bed at night so that I can beat this nasty cold.

What's going on with my bridal party... My bridal party is interesting to say the least. Half of the girls in the bridal party live in the States. So organizing tends to be a problem! But they have all been great and we went dress shopping last month! The dresses look great on the girls! We're going with wine for the maids and my sister, the maid of honour, is wearing pink! My niece, the flower girl, also tried on dresses and she looked so cute!

What happened this week that was frustrating... One of my maids couldn't make it to the States last month when we went dress shopping. So I had to order her dress based on her measurements. I hope it fits!

What happened this week that was awesome!... My FH and I went to see Phantom of the Opera. It was a lovely evening. We haven't had an evening alone together in quite a long time and it was nice to be able to go out and enjoy each other's company.

Planning pet peeves lately... money...what else?

Our budgeting issues this week/day/month... none yet.

And the hunt continues... Everything is booked. Contracts signed, deposits paid! We have a deposit due at the end of this month to our caterer. We've also bought our gifts for the bridal party and we found lovely glasses for the bridal party for dinner!

Advice for out brides out there... Just breathe! Getting all worked up and stressed out isn't going to help. I try to take each day at a time and do tasks a little at a time so that it doesn't seem like so much to do at the end.

bridal diary: may 18, 2007

How we're feeling... Well we are both doing quite well right now. We are obviously excited about our upcoming wedding. Right now we've been busy working out the details of our honeymoon. When we sat down to decide where to go on our honeymoon, one place came to mind... Disney World. It's a special place for the both of us. In 2003, we took our first trip together... to Walt Disney World. In 2006, we got engaged right in front of Cinderella's Castle at Walt Disney World! So we will be honeymooning there! We're doing a bit of a delayed honeymoon. We're leaving November 29, two months after the wedding, and will be returning December 9! We're looking forward to the Christmas festivities that Disney holds that time of year! We can't wait!! For the actual wedding planning, we've been working on compiling addresses for invitations. We're just waiting on Scott's dad to get the addresses for his extended family. We also have to work on favours, centrepieces, place cards, seating chart, and programs. So this summer should be filled with all those wonderful tasks!

The groom surprised me by... Just by being him! Whenever I have a bad day, he always lifts my spirits. Whether it's by going for a walk with our dog, or sitting on the deck and talking, or going for ice cream!

What's going on with my bridal party... My bridal party has been great! They are quite busy right now with planning the details for our stag and doe! They're all working so hard and it's going to be a great night! The guys will be going to get fitted for their tuxes sometime this summer. We sent out an email to see when was best for everyone, since they all have varying schedules! My girls and my mother are throwing a bridal shower for me in two weekends. It's going to be in Pennsylvania. So I will be making another trip to the states with my fiancé and this time my dog :) I'm having two showers this summer... one thrown by my mom and my US bridesmaids and the other by my mom in law to be and my Canadian bridesmaids! What a busy summer!!

What happened this week that was frustrating... Chasing after my bridesmaids in the States to go and order their dresses! It takes about 8 weeks for the dresses to come in and they need to be ordered so that my mom and dad can bring up the dresses for my Canadian bridesmaids when they visit for the stag and doe!

What happened this week that was awesome!... Nothing really haha! I'll let you know when something does!

Planning pet peeves lately... Organizing the guest list and all of the addresses! Thank god for spreadsheets!

Our budgeting issues this week/day/month... Paid a deposit at the end of April. Next one due June 9!

And the hunt continues... All done! But my vendors are: ceremony and reception location: University of Guelph Arboretum, photographer: Sarah Huton Photography... she's awesome!!, cake: Too Nice To Slice, cake by Chrissie... so sweet, ceremony musicians: Purely Music, flute and cello duo, our officiant is a friend of a friend - he's a cop who's an ordained minister.

Advice for out brides out there... I have to say that I am excited for September to be here! It seems like it will never get here. But I have lots of tasks and events to do until that day. A stag and doe and 2 showers this summer will keep anyone busy. I have lots of crafts to do concerning my centrepieces and favours... and I am not the craftiest person in the world but thank god that Scott's aunts are! They've agreed to help me make my favours. We're making chocolate lollipops! But overall, I'm happy in my life right now with my great fiancé. He makes everyday worthwhile :)

bridal diary: june 23, 2007

How we're feeling... Well we sat down last night and worked on our invitations. There wasn't much to do since we had ordered them online. All we had to do was write out the addresses and fold maps to go with the invitations. What fun!

The groom surprised me by... He said that we could go to PA for a visit with my family over the long weekend :) I'm so excited! My aunt and cousins are in from Chicago and I haven't seen them in almost a year!

What's going on with my bridal party... Everything is good, for the most part! I'm irritated on one thing but I won't get into it on here! They are all working away though on our stag and doe!

What happened this week that was frustrating... Building permit for our tent! Apparently we need engineer stamped drawings of the tent! But we're working on resolving the issue!

What happened this week that was awesome!... The bridesmaids dresses came in well ahead of time! YAY!

Planning pet peeves lately... Building permit!!!!

Our budgeting issues this week/day/month... None. My fiancé's parents are giving us $5000 to help pay for things.

Advice for out brides out there... 3 months to go! Time is flying by! Next month is our stag and doe! Should be good times! We are both excited for that event!

bridal diary: august 13, 2007

How we're feeling... The wedding is getting closer and closer... the stress is starting to hit me a little bit! But I'm not doing that bad. We still have little things to do like favours and centrepieces but other than that everything is booked and planned! We are still working on the building permit for our tent. We have the engineer's stamped drawings. Now we just have to get all the paperwork signed and take it into the city and apply for it! Such fun! I assigned that task to my fiancé. I've been handling everything else. We had our stag and doe last month and it was fabulous! There was a great turnout and we had a blast with all of our friends and family. Just can't wait until the wedding day!!!

What happened this week that was frustrating... My grandparents not wanting to travel to Canada to come to my wedding. :(

What happened this week that was awesome!... I got a job!

Our budgeting issues this week/day/month... The budget is totally under control! Let the cheque writing begin!!!!

Advice for out brides out there... Write your own wedding vows... they mean so much more when you do.
 

bridal diary: september 4, 2007

How we're feeling... Well I must say that I am not enjoying this last minute planning! I actually am dealing with it quite well, considering. I've made a list and I've been checking lots of stuff off as I go! The stress is starting to hit me but I am dealing with it the best that I can. My fiancé has been great with helping me deal with it. If he knows I'm feeling stressed he'll give me a great big hug! What a doll! Last night we typed up our seating cards, favor tags and worked on our programs. Not much left to do, thank goodness!!

The groom surprised me by... He had flowers delivered to me at work AND he brought me lunch for my birthday! What a sweetie. :)

What's going on with my bridal party... They threw me a wicked stag and doe that raised a lot of money! We all had a blast together! My girls threw me a fun shower and I had a great time at that as well. :)

What happened this week that was frustrating... BUILDING PERMIT!!!!! But I am pleased to say that we FINALLY have it in our hands! No more worries !!!

What happened this week that was awesome!... I had a really fun bridal shower that my fiancé's sister (my bridesmaid) and his aunt, mom and grandma threw for me!

Planning pet peeves lately... Little things here and there! Just the little stuff that builds up and needs to get down!

Our budgeting issues this week/day/month... None! Thank goodness!

Advice for out brides out there... I have to say that time is flying by so fast! I am trying to relax and enjoy things as they come! The big day will be here before I know it!

bridal diary: october 11, 2007

Advice for out brides out there... Well, the wedding is all over!!! We had a beautiful day and couldn't have asked for better weather! The sun was shining down on us all day and it was nice and warm! No rain and no cool weather is all we asked for! The ceremony was just perfect! It was outside but we used our tent that we rented anyways! I got a little choked up while saying my vows but held back the tears! Hiring musicians (a flute and cello duo) was definitely the way to go! It added to the atmosphere quite nicely! The reception was amazing! We had an amazing time dancing and partying with all of our guests! We're sad to see that it is all over but we are quite looking forward to our honeymoon in Disney World in December! The days leading up to the wedding just flew by! I woke up the day of my wedding and I couldn't believe that it was here! It was definitely what we both dreamed of for our wedding day! Pictures will be up, but please be patient, I have to wait for my awesome photographer, Sarah Huton, who is on The Ring btw! Best wishes to all you brides-to-be out there! It is definitely all worth it in the end!!! :)

Danielle Allison & Dallas Moses

Engaged

July 30, 2006

Wedding

July 14, 2007

Our Theme & Colours

Ocean blue, moss green and cream

Guest Invited

44 (Only close family)

Budget

his parents $2,000, my parents $2,000, Total budget $7,000-$8,000

basics

How we met... At University.

We wanted to share our story because... To show other brides that you don't have to be Martha Stewart to plan your own wedding!

How he proposed... I always imagined a romantic proposal by fireworks or sky writing but it ended up being a very unromantic one. We simply discussed our future plans and somehow we ended up talking about marriage. "So do you wanna?" "Sure why not!" pretty much sums it up! The next day we went to the mall together to get an engagement ring and I made him get down on one knee in the middle of the busy mall to propose. We were both so red!

How we feel about our upcoming married life... I feel SO MANY things! I'm nervous, anxious, elated and most of all totally excited!

Our dream wedding could be described as... Our ceremony will be outdoors. I love nature and want to be surrounded by trees, the water, the birds and a nice cool breeze!

Our colour/theme: We don't have a theme but our colours are Ocean blue, moss green and cream.

planning

So far (by April 19, 2007) we've planned... Almost everything except bridal party accessories, rehearsal, honeymoon and decorations.

Our biggest concern right now is... Because I am crafting the favours as well as the bridal party gifts myself, I am very afraid of not having everything done in time. Also because the ceremony is outside I'm really afraid its going to rain. NOOO!

Chapter one diary entry... My brain hurts! Things are starting to come together but there is still SO MUCH to do. It seems whenever I try to take a step forward I take three steps back. SIGH! I know it will all be worth it in the end!

bridal diary: may 1, 2007

How we're feeling... We are stressed at this point. Of course we are looking forward to getting married but things are starting to take its toll. My FH was really looking forward to our honeymoon but it turns out we really can't afford it which upsets him as his sis was given $30,000 for her wedding. (His dad was pressured by the groom's parents to pay for everything as they are very traditional.)

The groom surprised me by... I know how much he has been looking forward to our honeymoon. He’s never really been anywhere outside the country and he so deserves a vacation. He’s stuck in a job HE HATES just so he can have his vacation time and now it turns out we probably can’t go as we don’t have enough $. I was expecting a battle between us but he took it very well. I still feel terrible he won’t get his trip and may have to stay in that job for a few extra months (which I doubt he’ll do as he hates it THAT much).

What's going on with my bridal party... Well it looks like the dress I chose for my bridesmaids is no longer sold and they are getting rid of their stock. No problem, I’ll just pick another one right? WRONG!!!!!! Two of my bridesmaids have already ordered it and when the third went to do the same (only a couple days later) she found out they didn’t have any left in her size and the closest one left was far too big to get taken in for her. Now what? Fortunately she is the MOH so its not a big deal for her to look different from the others. She managed to find a similar looking dress however so that’s going to have to do.

What happened this week that was frustrating... Just about everything! I take things as they come and try to work through the problems one at a time. Its never good when the bridesmaids are stressing out more than you are! There is so much to do that I simply won’t have time for so I had to ask my FH to help organize things such as the Buck and Doe and the honeymoon (which most likely won’t happen anymore. See below). The date for the B&D is fast approaching and I don’t think he’s done anything yet besides rent to place. Sigh! I need two heads and 8 arms. Time seems to be FLYING by and I just can’t seem to get my crafts done fast enough. I’ve spent SO MUCH $$$ to personalize my favours I really hope people appreciate them. According to my make-up artists (MOH’s sister) favours are a complete waste of money. Guess we know who won’t be getting any then!

What happened this week that was awesome!... I found out I get back a pretty good chunk of change for my income taxes which is SO DESPERATELY needed right now. "Free" money is always a plus.

Planning pet peeves lately... I pride myself on being a great organizer but I really dropped the ball on this one. Everything is swimming around in my head but I have NO TIME to just sit down and organize. I just remembered the other day we still haven’t gotten our wedding rings yet. There’s goes more cash out the window. And the officiant costs $175 for 30 mins! What the hell!?!

Our budgeting issues this week/day/month... When isn’t there a budgeting issue? ALWAYS!!!!! It’s a good start for couples who are tight for cash to first try and plan a wedding. If you aren’t at each others throats by the end of it all, you’re good to get married! :) Since I waited far too long to book a decorator, we will most likely have to overpay for their services. Not good! I didn’t realize decorations cost so much to RENT! I mean they’re getting everything back afterwards why so much?? Unfortunately with this unforeseen glitch, we won’t be able to afford our honeymoon. :( My FH didn’t want to put it off as he thinks we’ll never go but I had to convince him we would. Hopefully a couple months afterwards we will be able to go.

And the hunt continues... DOH!!! I really shouldn't have waited so long to hire a decorator! The place I wanted already has 8 weddings booked and have to charge $250 over their minimum price. OY! So now I’m emailing every vendor in town asking what their minimum price is and if they’re available. For you brides to be out there DO NOT wait till the last minute to book your vendors! Originally I was going to do them myself, but I’m running out of time, and I really have no experience in that department. Since our wedding is under 50 people I really don’t want to spend a grand on decorations ya know? All I want are some simple embellishments here and there. Wish me luck and hopefully someone out there in K-W is available and isn’t going to charge me an arm and a leg to RENT.

Advice for out brides out there... NOBODY will have the perfect wedding! Whether it be money issues, families not getting along, unavailable vendors, dress problems, its going to happen like it or not. They key is to KNOW this ahead of time so when something does go wrong, you don’t flip out and loose your cool. Many things are not going the way I planned so far. For instance we were originally planning for a 30 person wedding. We booked the reception site and sent in our first payments. Then we started adding more and more people so now we’re stuck in a very small room where there isn’t even enough room on the table for centerpieces!!! We may even have to separate people into different rooms!!! Can you imagine? You just have to work with what you have and make the best of it. Guests aren’t going to notice everything you do so don’t stress over the little things. It only happens once so enjoy it!

bridal diary: june 1, 2007

How we're feeling... We are really looking forward to the big day. I still don't even think it's sunk it quite yet, I've just been so busy. The last month FLEW BY!

The groom surprised me by... Helping me out with planning. Also, he never hassles me when I spend more than we wanted to. He's the greatest!

What's going on with my bridal party... Things actually turned around for the better. Not only was my MOH able to get the same dress and my other two bridesmaids but she also got it on sale!!!!! Things can actually work out sometimes!!

What happened this week that was frustrating... I have to give my wedding party their main gifts after the wedding as I just won't have time to finish them prior to. Oh well, they said they didn't mind.

What happened this week that was awesome!... Since my fiancé was very adamant about going ANYWHERE after the wedding, we finally decided on taking a short trip up by Georgian Bay in Bruce's Peninsula. It looks gorgeous up there and I can't wait!!!

Planning pet peeves lately... Things cost too much money these days!

Our budgeting issues this week/day/month... Still trying to make everything work. Find out what needs to be paid now and what can be paid later. When everything is written out in front of you it helps relieve some stress!

And the hunt continues... I think we're done with hiring vendors at this point. This is who we have that is reviewed by The Ring: Ceremony & Reception - The Waterlot and Photographer - Memory Lane Studio. I am doing my own bouquets, my brother is doing the videography and friends of ours are going to play music.

Advice for out brides out there... Start early if you are making your own things. It will always take longer than you think.

bridal diary: july 3, 2007

How we're feeling... Okay so where did the time go? Its July ALREADY!?!? EEP!

The groom surprised me by... Getting mad at me for buying things for our wedding! HELLO these things don’t just fall out of the sky you know? I think his nerves are started to get to him!!

What's going on with my bridal party... I just bought them all matching earrings and necklaces for the wedding which happen to go very nicely with my own. The price was GREAT too. I also finally got to see one of my BM’s in their dress!!!!! It looked SO MUCH better than I thought it would I’m so pleased. Plus my MOH is going to wear it to her hubby’s xmas work party. She’s going to knock their socks off! I’m glad they can wear it again as it doesn’t quite look like a typical BM dress.

What happened this week that was frustrating... I have anxiety, and at our Buck and Doe I actually had a few panic attacks (to the point I ended up in tears) that day and was a wreck for most of the night. People kept telling me to relax and that everything was fine (which I knew) but I just couldn’t. By the end of the night I was better but I’m now anxious about getting anxious for the big day. I want to enjoy myself this time.

What happened this week that was awesome!... We’re FINALLY getting our engagement pictures taken tomorrow. And we’re getting married next week!!!

Planning pet peeves lately... Just last minute things I keep forgetting about. OH CRAP... I still need to get our marriage licence!!!! See, just like that.

Our budgeting issues this week/day/month... Everything is due now. Crappy!

Advice for out brides out there... Do your best to pay off your vendors at different times throughout your engagement. That way you won’t end up having to pay them all at once a week before your wedding when you’ve got enough stress as it is. Also, this is the time when stress is at an all time high so it's common for you and your fiancé to get on each other's nerves. Just remember why you said yes in the first place and know when your day finally arrives, you won’t be able to keep your eyes and arms off each other! ;)

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Alicia Goheen & Alex Seebach

Engaged

September 8, 2006

Wedding

November 3, 2007

Our Theme & Colours

Brown, Green and Cream/Ivory

Guest Invited

175

Budget

$12,000

basics

How we met... Through a mutual friend on her birthday.

We wanted to share our story because... I want to share my wedding story because I love reading about other couples'... and because we haven't known each other that long... but true love just exists.

How he proposed... Well.. it's sort of a funny story... I was heading to Victoria BC for a week with my girlfriend at the end of August... kind of a treat for ourselves. Anyways, the night before I left my our friend Dru's bachelor party (their wedding was set for Sept 15, 2006) so Alex was all upset because he wanted to spend the last night I was home with me, but I made him go out for Dru's party... Anyways!!! I picked him up once he claimed he "lost his license and couldn't get into the rippers" he was really... well wasted... So I tried to get him to go to bed... then he just looks at me with those drunk eyes and says "Don't go to BC... stay here with me... Marry Me"... Obviously, as he was drunk I just shrugged it off and told him to ask me when he was sober (figuring well he wouldn't remember anyways! lol) So I went to BC... and as I was on my flight home, he sent me a text message saying he had a "little" surprise for me, for when I got off the plane... I didn't think TOO much of it.. but I did kind of think in the back of my mind... "no way!" I told myself... so sure enough when he picked me up from the airport, he reaches in the backseat of his car for my surprise... (at this point I had thought in my head so much I was excited at the thought it could be a ring!) So then he pulls out this stuffed dog he had made from Build-a-Bear and says here you go! :) (Secretly disappointed in my head) I said awwwe that's sooo sweet!! or something to that effect.. then we drove home (from Hamilton)... about half way there he asked me what I thought the surprise was going to be... and I said basically that he knew what I thought it was... so as not to bring it up... lol. Anywho, when we got home, we were parked in the parking lot of our townhouse complex and he leaned over and kissed me... and wouldn't stop (haha)... then when he finally pulled away he had the ring box open and had it held out in front of me, with a big smile on his face... So we did the whole hugs and kiss thing.. but the first thing I said out of my mouth was something along the lines of him being a sneaky bastard haha... (cause he made me think it was a ring... then it wasn't... and then it was!!). But it was gorgeous and I cried, and then he had to go back to work.. :)

How we feel about our upcoming married life... Very ancy! Now that we have our house... and once we settle into it, things will become more of a reality too though, I'm so happy to be able to spend the rest of my life with him... never have I ever met a man that is so caring and willing to do absolutely anything to make my day better... Couldn't have asked for a greater person!!

Our dream wedding could be described as... Family, Friends and my Fiancé! A nice ceremony (where I don't cry). Beautiful pictures and all those special moments.

Our colour/theme: Brown, Green and Cream/Ivory.

planning

So far (by May 2, 2007) we've planned... The Ceremony, Reception (thanks to The Black Forest Inn... my photographer, decorator, dj, food, cake etc..). The officiant is Don Perron, I've got my dress, the girls' dresses, I know what the boys will wear... they just need fittings... I'm doing my own invitations.. and have sent out the save the date cards... I made my girls' necklaces myself... ummmm I'll update more when I think of them!! lol

Our biggest concern right now is... My biggest concern is that my pictures won't turn out, and that people will have a terrible time... I'd really hate for them to not enjoy their time at our wedding... I want it to be as memorable for them, as it will be for Alex and I.

Chapter one diary entry... Really excited about my upcoming meeting with Barb at The Black Forest Inn! This will be our first planning session, I'm so excited about our options and to finally see how things will look and be figured out for the big day!

Stay tuned for more of Alicia & Alex's wedding story & photos

Amy Longmore & Ajay Madan

Engaged

December 28th & 31st, 2005

Wedding

September 28th & 30th, 2007

Our Theme & Colours

This is definitely a fall wedding. Lots of colours (reds, oranges, yellows, browns, greens, etc.). For the Indian wedding, the colour scheme is red and gold.

Guest Invited

For the first wedding, there will be about 100-120 guests, while for the Indian wedding, there will be about 350-400 guests.

Budget

$20,000 excluding our honeymoon, Ajay and I are primarily footing this bill, but his parents are paying for the Hindu wedding

basics

How we met... Lived in same residence (2nd floor Brandon Hall) at McMaster University.

We wanted to share our story because... Our wedding planning has been unique in that we are having 2 weddings (A Canadian Christian wedding and an East Indian Hindu wedding). It's been preparing for 2 full ceremonies and 2 full receptions. Double the work.. but double the fun!

How he proposed... Because we have 2 weddings, you have to have 2 proposals. The first proposal was when we started looking for engagement rings. Ajay was nervous that he wouldn't pick out what I wanted, so we went hunting for rings. When we found the right one, instead of him going on his own, he decided right then and there. I jumped for joy, I couldn't contain my excitement. We wandered around the mall for about 1 hour while my ring was being sized for me. The second proposal came on New Year's Eve. We were supposed to be going to the bank to run errands, when Ajay took a detour and drove me down to McMaster University. He made me close my eyes for part of the trip. Once we got there, we went for a walk. I wasn't expecting anything because we were already engaged. He took me to a spot under an alcove that connects 2 of the older buildings (this was where we had our first kiss on campus). Ajay got down on one knee and talked about how we met and that we had our first kiss here, but that first kiss was just a sign of many more to come and how he always knew we would be together forever, but that now we were going to make if official... I don't remember much else because I was crying. He got up kissed me and then kissed my engagement ring!

How we feel about our upcoming married life... We have now been together for about 8 1/2 years. This just seems very right, we really wanted to get established, but now are ready to take this step of marriage and commitment to each other. We are thrilled to begin our life together as husband and wife and look forward to taking and sharing the traditions we grew up on, and beginning to create our own as a family.

Our dream wedding could be described as... I always saw a fall wedding as my dream... I liked the country feel and certainly wanted something personal and unique. I always wanted a small wedding, but knew it would hard with Ajay's family being large. That is why we felt having the 2 weddings would reflect both our families' cultures and dreams.

Our colour/theme: This is definitely a fall wedding. Lots of colours (reds, oranges, yellows, browns, greens, etc.). The Bridesmaids are in wine coloured dresses. There is also a black wrought iron theme. This wasn't in the original plans, but fall reminds me of when my mom and I used to go for walks in the crisp evening with the black lamp posts around our neighbourhood lighting our way. For the Indian wedding, the colour scheme is red and gold.

planning

So far (by May 16, 2007) we've planned... We have done everything for the first wedding except create a ceremony program, address the invitations, write out the place cards, finalize the transportation, finalize the honeymoon, finalize the song lists and the menu. For the East Indian wedding, there is a lot more we need to do. We have a Mandap (canopy), a photographer, a ceremony/reception location and decorator, DJ, videographer, and some accessories. We just got the bridesmaids outfits in India.

Our biggest concern right now is... At this point for the first wedding, the honeymoon seems to be our biggest concern because our travel agent decided to leave the company, so we are trying to develop a rapport with a new agent. The biggest concern for the East Indian wedding is that I currently have no clothes purchased... so that is a bit of a concern, but here's hoping we can scratch that off our list soon.

Chapter one diary entry... Tonight, Ajay and I are going to Mississauga to try some Indian food from one of the potential caterers. We are also going to look around at outfits for myself for the Indian wedding. I am really excited to see what I will eventually wear for the wedding. I know it will be red and gold, but I have no idea how elaborate. This past weekend, Ajay's mom asked me about jewellery and I found out a lot of jewellery is coming to me from India, I feel so spoiled and excited and this is so different from what I am used to! Having the pictures from these wedding days will be the best gift of all, so I can remember how I looked and remember all the great things about the day.

bridal diary: may 16, 2007

Update on my vendors...

Ceremony/Reception: Grey Silo Golf Course

Caterer: Bingemans

Indian Wedding Ceremony/Reception: Burlington Convention Centre

Dress: Taylor's Bridal Boutique Inc.

Decorator: Cindy from Now & Always

Cake: The Cake Box

Invitations: Stephita Wedding Invitations and Stationery

Make-up: Member of The Ring, Tanya Snowdon

Ceremony Music: Purely Music (Flute & Cello Duo)

Photographer: Pamela Wideman Photography

Videographer: Willow Creek Studios

Shoes: Latino's Shoes & Accessories

Favours: E-Bay

bridal diary: june 10, 2007

How we're feeling... We are feeling pretty good right now. We went to our friend's wedding on June 2/07 and it made us think more about our own. People are starting to get excited and I'm thinking more about getting our invitations out in early July, which makes it feel so real! We're also looking forward to going to Bingemans this week for a food sampling for our Grey Silo Golf Course wedding... Mmmm... food!

What's going on with my bridal party... I have one last bridesmaid to take up for her 1st fitting on June 23rd to Taylor's Bridal Boutique Inc. . So far the girls are looking fantastic and I can't wait to see them on the big day!

What happened this week that was frustrating...We have yet to finalize things with our travel agency. We're hoping to meet with her this week, as our final amount is due in mid-late July, and we are concerned we haven't received final confirmation on paper nor our final flight times.

What happened this week that was awesome!... We went shopping for our clothes for the indian wedding this past weekend, which was lots of fun!! The lenghas are so glamorous and very detailed in embroidery and jewels (I felt like a million bucks or like an indian queen). Ajay looks so handsome in his outfit (we kept saying he is the Raja - meaning king in Hindi). Now we just need to look for an outfit for our sangeet party and some jewellery and shoes for me.

Planning pet peeves lately... I'm finding now that despite doing so much ahead of time, we still have so much to do. The girls in The Ring have been so helpful to remind me of things I should be doing... it's just finding the time. I'm a worrier, so even though it probably isn't something to worry about, I still think we better get on this and not leave it to the last minute. I think I will feel better once the invitations have been addressed and sent out!

bridal diary: july 4, 2007

How we're feeling... It was so exciting seeing my ticker under 3 months. I feel like it's really happening now. People are starting to get excited and we're hearing about everyone coming for the wedding, so it makes us feel so thankful and blessed that people want to share our day with us.
The groom surprised me by... Ajay got his tuxes picked out... he is going to look so handsome, as well as the groomsmen. The colours look so good with the bridesmaid dresses, and Ajay has that subtle difference just to make him stand out/shine more.

What happened this week that was frustrating... So far everything has settled down now. I'm thinking more about the table settings, and am curious how it will all look when I'm delegating this task, but I know I have to put my faith into other people that it will turn out beautifully.

What happened this week that was awesome!... We got our invitations out yesterday, which made me feel so much better... We're also getting our honeymoon sorted out and paying it off this weekend, which is a huge relief.

Our budgeting issues this week/day/month... This is going to be a big budgeting month... we finally decided to take out a line of credit, just to make sure. This month we will have the honeymoon paid off, a deposit to the photographer, and half of the hall/food/drink paid off. I'll be relieved in the end, because then there won't so much do.

And the hunt continues... Now the process begins to finalize with all the vendors. We're meeting Pam from Pamela Wideman Photography at the end of the month to finalize photography locations and the timeline for the day. I have to get in touch with my florist as well to finalize everything since our mothers just recently picked out their dresses.

bridal diary: july 30, 2007

How we're feeling... I can't believe we are now under the 2 month mark. It really feels exciting now. There's still so much to do, but it feels like it's coming together now. We've been talking more about our honeymoon, which we are both excited about because it finally means a vacation! 
What's going on with my bridal party... My MOH is apparently working on my shower, I now know it's Sunday August 19th at her place in Oakville. I've been told the invitations have been sent out. I just can't wait. We're now finalizing the make-up trials and I know all my girls are going to look fantastic.

What happened this week that was awesome!... We started looking at photos for our videographer, Willow Creek Studios. We're trying to create a video montage of our lives growing up. It's so amazing looking at pics of my FH when he was a kid, he was so cute! It's also brought back memories for myself and I feel I have been more emotional thinking about the day, so I've been keeping Kleenex near by (lol). 

Planning pet peeves lately... We've sent out the invitations, so now the waiting game begins. I feel like it takes forever for people to send back the reply cards! I mean we put stamps on them, how hard is it!!!

Our budgeting issues this week/day/month... We sent our first cheque to Bingemans this past week who is doing our catering at Grey Silo Golf Course. That was a huge cheque and certainly not the end of it. So we do notice money is flying out faster then it's coming in. We're hoping that the majority of everything will be paid off before the wedding day comes.

And the hunt continues... My next hunt is for a indian lengha for my sangeet on the 22nd of September. It's probably the last thing I need to find, well maybe shoes & jewelry for that wedding. I'm going with FH's mom on August 3rd, so hopefully we'll find something that day!

Stay tuned for more of Amy & Ajay's wedding story & photos

Chloe Hovinga & Colin Lobsinger

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Engaged

September 15, 2006

Wedding

June 23, 2007

Our Theme & Colours

Chocolate Brown & Leaf Green

Guest Invited

130

Budget

$20,000

basics

How he proposed... It was our one year anniversary. I didn't think we were going to do anything, I thought we might order in Chinese and watch a movie. But he had actually gone behind my back and made dinner reservations at a restaurant in Cambridge. We ate an AMAZING dinner, and then went out to the terrace for drinks after we finished. It was dimly lit, and SOOOO perfect :) And then he completely took me by surprise, and pulled out the most INCREDIBLE diamond I had ever seen, and asked me to marry him. Of course, I accepted.

How we feel about our upcoming married life... I'm really excited about the wedding. We have been living together for about a year in a beautiful new house in Kitchener. I don't really think that much is going to change after we're married. If anything, I'm sure that things will only be more fantastic.

Our colour/theme: Chocolate Brown and Leaf Green

planning

So far (by June 1, 2007) we've planned... the ceremony, officiant, photographer, reception, bride's dress, bridesmaid's dresses, tuxedoes, hair, makeup, cake and honeymoon.

Our biggest concern right now is... No concerns :) Just your average occasional pre-wedding freakouts about crying in front of EVERYONE I know.

Chapter one diary entry... There are 3 weeks and one day until the main event. From now until then I have to hand out deposits and payments to a million people, have my dress altered, have my stag and doe, host a party at my house and work at my normal, everyday job. I'm not really finding things to be stressful, just overwhelming. I'm really excited about the wedding. We started planning it after our engagement in September '06, to be held in October '07. In February of this year, we found out that we're expecting a baby in October :) We decided in early April that we would hold our wedding in June. Can I just tell you, that expediting the planning process costs ENTIRELY more money!! But the important part is taking it one day at a time, and having SERIOUS assistance from the Groom. Colin has called a million people, booked things, and given great opinions on things that most guys will never hear about. My wedding is a really big deal, and I love it!!

bridal diary: june 5, 2007

How we're feeling... Less than 3 weeks to go!!! I'm still not nervous, but we're definitely feeling the financial hit. Most vendors require the balance of their fee 2 weeks before the event; which means that this weekend everyone needs to be paid. Things are a little bit stressful, but overall, I'm just looking forward to the big day!!!

What's going on with my bridal party... Well, since the best man bailed 2 weeks ago (no, I am absolutely not joking), we have added a stand-in groomsman. He is cooperating wonderfully though, whereas, my fiancé has yet to tell the next guy down that he's the new best man. Tick tock Colin! Our bridesmaids dresses came in this week, which was AWESOME! They're perfect, and now the girls just have to get their alterations done. My maid of honour is going camping this weekend, so that leaves her completely unavailable for Bride-Assisting. Luckily though, I have another AMAZING friend who is also a bridesmaid, who is ready at the drop of a hat to help me out. This is my last free weekend before the wedding, and I'm using it to run deposits, pick up my dress and update my registry (I received everything I had listed already as bridal shower gifts!!). Next weekend is our stag and doe, my trial hair appointment and my friend's baby shower. Busy busy!

Planning pet peeves lately... Realizing that there are still a number of people who have not RSVP'd. Of course, I didn't realize it until I sat down to do my seating arrangements (which, by the way, I gave up on once I realized that it's a political disaster). YIKES!

Our budgeting issues this week/day/month... No budgeting issues this week :) I am still finding it heart wrenching to hand over money to strangers.

And the hunt continues... WE STILL DON'T HAVE A STRING QUARTET!!! Not because we can't find one, but because WE HAVEN'T EVEN STARTED LOOKING!! Oh no, now I'm freaking. But no, really, I'm not stressed.

Advice for out brides out there... Do not watch the Bridal Disaster shows on TV during the month before your wedding. I watch them a couple times a week, and I do not sleep those nights. People run into some terrible issues on those shows!

Stay tuned for more of Chloe & Colin's wedding story & photos

Chantelle & Jason

Engaged

September 7, 2006

Wedding

October 13, 2007

Our Theme & Colours

Brown & Blue with Green Accents

Guest Invited

110

Budget

$10,000 including honeymoon

basics

How we met... Well, he says in Grade 10 Science Class... I guess he forgot that he came to a church youth function and we hung out the year before.

We wanted to share our story because... Every wedding and every couple has their own story. I never get tired of hearing how people enjoyed (or didn't enjoy) the planning stages, and the things that make their wedding and themselves so unique! I think it's exciting to share my story.

How he proposed... Well, we knew we wanted to get married - so I knew the proposal was coming eventually. We had just gone to my parents' place for Labour Day weekend and everyone was overly happy. (Jay had asked permission at 5 in the morning Monday morning.) I thought something might be up. Wednesday evening Jay had plans for us to go out into the country to visit his step-grandparents' farm. I hadn't been there before, and when we started walking around the fields watching the sunset, I figured he was going to propose. It never happened. That night, I was quite upset and actually cried. (Long story short - I figured he was afraid of commitment.) The next night, we were going to go out to dinner at 9, but take a walk in the park first. Well, he stopped in a secluded area near the water and sang "I Wanna Grow Old with You" by Adam Sandler, and said his speech about good times and bad, wrinkly or not... then went down on one knee and proposed with a gorgeous custom made ring! The dinner outing was pre-planned with over 20 friends we knew! (Apparently he was heart wrenched that I was so sad the night before - oops :) )

How we feel about our upcoming married life... Oh my gosh! So excited!!! I love every bit of this planning stuff... and I am getting Jay to make all the phone calls and final stuff. I'm even more excited to spend my life with the one man I know will never leave my side. I know life brings good times and bad - and I'm okay with that - but knowing we love and respect each other and that we'll support each other in any decision we need to make... that's all that matters.

Our dream wedding could be described as... Him - Me - Lots of close family and friends... and a LOT of unique and creative flare!

Our colour/theme: We're getting married in an old heritage village, with use of the "town chapel" and a small hall. Our theme is old/rustic. Our colors are brown (guys' tuxes) and blue, with green accents.

planning

So far (by June 1 2007) we've planned... The big stuff: Hall, caterer, florist, decorating plans, hair stylist, the dresses, the tuxedos, the photographer, the website, the registries...

Our biggest concern right now is... The weather! The "roads" are dirt/gravel... so God please don't let it rain!!! Another concern is being able to stretch our budget the whole way!!!

Chapter one diary entry... Jay and I have a busy summer - it's hard to find a weekend where we can complete some wedding plans! We have 5 stag and does to attend, and 4 more weddings to attend!! But it's a blast anyway! Ha ha.

Stay tuned for more of Chantelle & Jason's wedding story & photos

Stephanie Vieira & Adam Finch

Engaged

December 24, 2006

Wedding

July 12, 2008

Our Theme & Colours

Pink & Green

Guest Invited

200 to 250

Budget

$25,000 to $30,000

basics

How we met... Working at McDonalds when we were 16.

We wanted to share our story because... I have loved every minute of wedding planning, and would like to share my story with other brides!

How he proposed... On Christmas Eve I suggested we go see the lights at Victoria Park, well little did I know that he was already going to take me there! We walked into the gazebo, where 4 years earlier he gave me my promise ring, and he got down on one knee and asked me to marry him!

How we feel about our upcoming married life... I'm extremely excited! I can't see my future without him.

Our dream wedding could be described as... Lots of family and friends coming together and supporting us. And perfect weather!

Our colour/theme: Pink and Green

planning

So far (by August 25, 2007) we've planned... We have the church, hall, menu, decorator, photographer, centrepieces, candy buffet accessories, my dress, bridesmaid's gifts, bridesmaid's dresses, DJ and cake done.

Our biggest concern right now is... STRESS!!! I'm in school still and I'm concerned that it might be too much to handle both!

Chapter one diary entry... Well its the last week before I go back to school! I managed to get a lot of things done over the summer so that I won't worry about anything while I'm in school! I'm really happy with how much I have accomplished over the summer. Hopefully the next 8 months of school will go over smoothly!

bridal diary: september 16, 2007

How we're feeling... So far we are both excited with the wedding coming up. We are into single digits now, so it became more surreal. I'm so in love with him because he is sooo supportive of me going back to school, and that he is taking a charge in the planning while I'm in school.

The groom surprised me by... Looking at some limos! I asked him in July to pick a limo, so the fact that he looked some up and got back to me with prices was very surprising!

What's going on with my bridal party... Well, so far they are great! They are extremely helpful! They already have the Stag and Doe done!

What happened this week that was frustrating... My MOH telling me she doesn't want to pay for her dress because it's too expensive and she can't afford it (it's not that expensive!)

What happened this week that was awesome!... We decided when we are going to take our engagement pics! I'm soooo excited to get these done in the fall with all the amazing colours.

Planning pet peeves lately... The MOH issue.

Our budgeting issues this week/day/month... The budget hasn't been a issue so far! We are under budget so far.

And the hunt continues... All the vendors are done except the limo!

bridal diary: december 20, 2007

How we're feeling... Everything is done! Can't believe! Now its time to sit back and wait!

The groom surprised me by... Treating me to a de-stress dinner.

What's going on with my bridal party... We are planning a hip bridal party dance, so we are trying to get everyone's take on it.

What happened this week that was awesome!... Girls finally picked their dresses!

Planning pet peeves lately... Trying to get all the girls to decide on a date to look at dresses!

Our budgeting issues this week/day/month... None!

And the hunt continues... I just have to meet with the flower lady and finalize what flowers are being used. Other than this, all vendors are done!

bridal diary: april 22, 2008

How we're feeling... School is almost done, so that means getting the last minute things done! Everything is going sooo smoothly its kind of creepy! We are both really excited for the day!!

The groom surprised me by... Offering to get my hair done! (Aw)

What's going on with my bridal party... Bridal party is doing good, they want to do things to make it easier for me... which is awesome!
What happened this week that was frustrating... My parents keep inviting people when I sent out invites in March!

Stay tuned for more of Stephanie & Adam's wedding story & photos

Jolene MacDonald & Jeremy Szabo

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Engaged

March 2007

Wedding

August 8, 2008

Our Theme & Colours

Cape Cod wedding style

Guest Invited

100

Budget

Approximately $10,000 - $12,000

basics

How we met... Through a friend at a birthday party.

We wanted to share our story because... Because after years of a not so perfect relationships and 2 years of being single and single parent I am a believer that love really does exist and it can happen when you least expect it or want it.

How he proposed... We had only been dating for about 5 months and Jeremy had suggested taking a look at engagement rings. We already knew at this point that we were meant for each other however we weren't in a rush but he suggested we look so when the time came he knew what I liked. We chose a beautiful ring with a heart shaped diamond but I said it was too expensive but it was the most beautiful ring I had ever seen. I suggested we keep looking... moving closer to Christmas we were in Build A Bear and I noticed a bear named "Bearemy" just like his name and said it was so cute... also because his friends call him Jer the Bear but I call him my Jer Bear... LOL. After that trip he started singing the song from the TVO claymation cartoon "Jeremy the Bear" from when we were kids... always a comedian. Christmas passed and thoughts of rings passed. Fast forward to March 07 and I was at gymnastics for my daughter and couldn't get a hold of him. I tried his cell, his work and home and no answer. Finally he called just before her class was over. Jeremy asked if I was coming home soon or if I was going to get dinner, etc. I said was coming home and that I had been worried I couldn't get a hold of him. He said he been helping his parents with something at their house but he was home now and was waiting for us. I got home and was going to sit down next to him on the sofa and pulled out a build a bear box. He said "I thought maybe you were mad at me so I got you something". I opened the box and pulled out the bear called "Bearemy". I was laughing and thought it was sooo cute that he remembered but that I wasn't mad just worried. My daughter thought this was funny that mommy was getting a teddy bear. Jeremy pointed out that I should squeeze the hand as it had a recording in it. I hadn't seen that so I was trying to squeeze the hand on the bear. Just as I did that Jeremy was getting up off the sofa and the bear started sing the song from the TVO show "Jeremy the Bear"... I was really laughing as I realized it was Jeremy's voice that was the recording. He had built the bear and sang into this voice box... The song he sang went like this "I'm a bear called Jeremy, I can do most anything, I can sing and dance and play... Jolene won't you marry me?" And with that I realized he was down on one knee in front of me and said "Jolene, will you marry me?" And there was the most beautiful ring we had chosen back in November. Both us started to cry and of course I said yes! Then we asked my daughter if it was okay that he marry me as well... and she said yes! She loves him as much as I do. It was simple yet so thoughtful... at 5 months he had gone back the next day and bought the ring but waited until March to ask me. It was perfect and funny in everyway - just like him!

How we feel about our upcoming married life... We are really excited to start our life together. We seem to love each other more every day in all ways. The wedding seems so far away and that it can't be here fast enough!

Our dream wedding could be described as... Our dream wedding is making sure that all our best friends and family are there and that everyone has a great time and it's one big party. We would like to get married at my family's cottage at Belwood Lake with the ceremony taking place on Lakeside just before sundown and then enjoying great food and music with everyone until the sun comes up!

Our colour/theme: The theme is classy whimsical outdoors. We envision metal buckets with multicoloured gerber daisies on the tables with turquoise blue ribbons and butterflies, dragonflies and ladybugs on the invites that will be carried through to the cake that sits on a bed of wheatgrass and place cards, candles etc. The bridesmaids are in mix and match tea length dresses in turquoise and white and the men are in khaki/tan pants and blue blazers and ties. Almost Cape Cod wedding style.

planning

So far (by September 22, 2007) we've planned...

• Chosen Bridesmaids, groomsmen and attire

• Flowers and cake

• Location, tent, minister, photographer

• Idea of what food we would like but not booked

• Rough guest list

• Idea of decorations, centrepieces

Our biggest concern right now is... The wedding is outdoors so weather and making sure the tent is comfortable and able to accommodate everyone, etc. Making sure that our family and friends are not responsible for cleaning up, etc.

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Vanassa & Jamie

Engaged

October 5, 2006

Wedding

June 20, 2009

Our Theme & Colours

spring theme - pale yellow and light green

Guest Invited

200

Budget

$30,000

basics

How we met... In Grade 5, he was my first boyfriend, but I only went out with him because I wanted to be popular because I was the new girl... I dumped him two weeks later... lol. We've been good friends since. We didn't get involved romantically until high school.

We wanted to share our story because... I think it's a story of destiny. Who knew that my very first boyfriend ever, would also eventually become my future husband. As well, it just proves that friends are able to become more than that, and true love might just be right under your nose, where you least expect it. We're proof, nine years later (including 3 of those living together) as much in love as the very first.

How he proposed... After I graduated university, Jamie's graduation present to me was a month backpacking in Europe, something I've always dreamed of doing. One romantic night in Venice, we had dinner at one of the cafes and walked along St Mark's Square, with its beautiful church, with all the buildings lit up with little white lights and a live orchestra playing in the square. Our tour manager bought all the girls on our tour roses and we were all getting set to go on our gondola rides through the canals (as Venice consists entirely of sidewalks and canals, no roads whatsoever). We even had bottles of champagne to accompany our gondola rides. Jamie and I were sharing a gondola with two other couples so we made it a little game that after every bridge we went under on our gondola ride, we would kiss our significant others. As we passed under the first bridge, we kissed but as we passed under the second bridge, Jamie stood up on the gondola. As he did so, the gondola kind of rocked so I tried to pull him back down and even said "are you crazy? are you trying to tip us over?" Then as he proceeded to bend down on one knee and asked me to marry him, needless to say, I had nothing more to say other than a simple "of course". One of the guys on our gondola yelled out "she said yes!" and everyone on the tour from the other gondolas started yelling and screaming and popping open their champagne bottles. As we got back to the dock, we were sprayed with some champagne and felt like movie stars as everyone from our tour wanted pictures of us. It was truly a magical night, a story for the grandkids for sure.

How we feel about our upcoming married life... A little anxious and scared, nervous. We've been together for so long and the fact that this is the ultimate culmination of all our years together, we just want our day to be one of the happiest days ever. It's been a long time coming as well, so we've been anticipating it and now the time has finally come.

Our dream wedding could be described as... Even with an expected 200 guests, we still want our reception to feel intimate and cozy. We are also having a traditional Laotian wedding a month before our North American wedding to honour my side of the family's traditions (just imagine Jamie, a fairly big Irish guy in hammer pants, should be good times).

Our colour/theme: Our wedding date is actually the first day of summer and the longest day of daylight of the year so we're having a spring/early summer theme. Colours we were thinking of were pale yellow and light green.

planning

So far (by November 26, 2007) we've planned... Venue, date, and that's pretty much it.

Our biggest concern right now is... Having two wedding receptions within a month or two of each other. We'd like to get most the planning done as early as possible, as I am a bridesmaid for another wedding that will most likely be around the same time. Timing and organization are KEY.

Chapter one diary entry... Well, after over a year of being engaged, we've finally set a wedding date and picked a venue. It is St. George Banquet Hall in Waterloo and is actually the very first place we looked at. Both our moms came along and really liked it as well. All the other venues were always being compared to the first, so we finally made the BIG decision. Next on our list, guest list and wedding attendants... help!

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